JUMPING THE FENCES

This is something that somehow worries me 24/7... imagine you meet up someone and you exchange phone numbers (cell phone numbers), well now is instant messengers and blackberry emails but my ponit is you got that persons number and what's the first thing you are gonna do? call? no, we text first, is safer, easier, and a set up roll apparently; actually if you go for the ring that person wont pick up because it will feel unpersonal even if you had sex the night you meet up (like its cool to fuck an extranger but feels weird to call).
I'm a very lazy person when it comes to introducing myself into new technologies or manners. If i liked a girl back in school i would have to call to her house wait for her dad or mom to pick up and ask for her (obvioulsy respecting certain times for calling and assuming her parents will be staring and awaiting for her to hang up). Now kids that are 12 probably exchange messenger contacts and mastrubate like monkeys in front of their web cam.
I had a myspace since 03 (that was probably my fisrt connection with the internet, i got an instant messnger and my first cell phone) and it was with the help of my friends, like right now on my own, i had a facebook for months and i still have no clue how to add anyone and to be honest i dont care; just like the same way i'm lazy/scared to have internet on my touch cell phone... that sounds to me like being plugged to the matrix or something crazy shit like that.
I was very used to skate to my friends places and just buzz or just hit the skate park or the place we will hang out usually and wait for someone to show up. Now buzzing someone's door without letting know you are coming is a total invasion of privacy, a call for no reason sounds strange beacuse we are all somehow connected through myspace/instant messenger/black berry/face book/cell phones/emails.
So i know is just a matter of time until i have myself immersed in all this crap of comunication addiction since to be honest i only call or recive calls from one person without expecting a favor, work or whatever. Is that call to see "whats up"... its a daily thing, even when we lived and worked together, whenever we will spend more than 3 hours away from each other we will call to see "what's up"... stupid? lame? useless? gay? probably all of them but hey at least i dont have/never had one of those lame borderline fotolog crap.